Back in 2017, we had the most magical wedding day. It was so us—super personalised with all the details that reflected who we are. From start to finish, everything felt like a dream. We laughed, we cried, we danced, and we soaked in every moment. But, if we’re honest, as much as we cherished our day, we also have two big regrets:
- Booking a DJ instead of a live band. We love music and had always dreamed of a band that could bring the energy we wanted. The DJ was great, but a live band would have elevated the atmosphere and made it even more memorable.
- Not hiring a videographer—ironic, right? For us, it was a decision based on budget. We told ourselves photos were enough and that we’d rather put the money toward our honeymoon. We thought we’d captured everything we needed with snapshots and memories.
Looking back, we missed out on so much more than we ever realised. A wedding video isn’t just a recording of events; it’s an experience you can relive. The sound of your vows, the cheers from your guests, the laughter and emotions on everyone’s faces—it’s all lost without a video.
One of the things we wish we’d captured most was the sound of loved ones who are no longer with us. Their voices, their laughter, the way they cheered during the speeches and celebrated with us—it would have been a gift to hear them again, to preserve their presence in such a joyful moment. A wedding video can capture not only how they looked but how they sounded, adding another layer of meaning to your memories.
This is why we’re so passionate about what we do now. We don’t want couples to look back and feel the same regret. Instead, we want them to have something timeless, heartfelt, and uniquely theirs—a film they can cherish forever.
What We Missed Without a Wedding Video
Photos are incredible and have a special place in preserving memories, but they can only freeze a moment in time. A wedding video, on the other hand, brings those moments to life with movement, sound, and energy. Here’s what we missed:
- The Sound of Our Vows: Photos captured the moment we exchanged vows, but they couldn’t capture the emotion in our voices, the slight quiver as we said, “I do,” or the soft laughter that filled the room when Cal nearly fumbled his lines.
- Speeches That Moved Us: Our parents’ heartfelt toasts, the funny and slightly embarrassing stories from our best friends, and the cheers and applause afterward—those were moments we’ll never hear again. A photo can show someone standing at a microphone, but it can’t capture their words or the reactions of the room.
- Dance Floor Madness: Oh, the dance floor! Our guests pulled out moves that had us in stitches, but photos just don’t do them justice. We missed the energy, the rhythm, and the hilarious little quirks that video would have captured perfectly.
- The Little Things We Missed: Weddings are fast-paced, and no matter how much you try to take it all in, you’ll inevitably miss something. For us, it was Cal’s reaction as I walked down the aisle—the way his eyes filled with tears and the little sound he made trying not to cry. Without a video, those moments are gone forever.
We’ll always treasure our wedding photos, but without a video, there’s a piece of the puzzle missing. The laughter, the movement, the sounds—they’re what make your memories feel alive.
What Wedding Videos Give You
A wedding video isn’t just a keepsake; it’s a time capsule that lets you step back into the most special day of your life. It captures the essence of your wedding in a way that’s immersive and emotional, preserving not just how it looked but how it felt.
Couples often tell us how much their video means to them. One shared:
“Watching our video felt like reliving the day all over again. The sound of the speeches, the golden hour shots, and the candid laughter were all there. We didn’t just watch it—we felt it.”
Here’s what makes wedding videography worth the investment:
- Relive the Emotion: Your wedding day is filled with moments that tug at your heart—your partner’s expression as they see you for the first time, the laughter during speeches, the cheers on the dance floor. A video captures these emotions in real time, allowing you to feel them all over again.
- See What You Missed: Weddings are busy, and you can’t be everywhere at once. While you’re greeting guests or enjoying the dance floor, other beautiful moments are happening—like your parents sharing a quiet smile or your friends cracking up during cocktail hour. A video ensures you don’t miss a thing.
- Create a Legacy: A wedding video isn’t just for you. It’s something your family and future generations can treasure. Imagine your children watching it one day, seeing the love and joy that brought you together. It’s a beautiful way to preserve your story.
- Enhance Your Memories: Photos are wonderful, but a video adds layers—sound, movement, and depth—that create a fuller picture of your day. It’s the closest thing to stepping back into the moment.
The Grace & Motion Difference
At Grace & Motion, we don’t just make wedding videos—we tell stories. Every couple is different, and every love story deserves to be told in a way that feels authentic and true to who you are.
We focus on capturing the real moments: the laughs, the tears, the quiet glances, and the big celebrations. We blend candid moments with a carefully planned approach, so nothing is missed, and every detail is picture-perfect.
Whether it’s a romantic golden hour, quirky dance moves, or a furry friend stealing the spotlight, we’re here for it. And if your day has its own unique twist—like alpacas, owls, or a choreographed dance—we’re ready to make it shine.
An Investment That Grows in Value
The true value of your wedding film becomes even clearer over time. Years from now, when the flowers have faded and the dress is tucked away, your video will be there. It’s not just a reminder of how your day looked; it’s a way to relive how it felt.
“We weren’t sure about booking a videographer, but it was the best decision we made. Grace & Motion captured so much more than we ever expected. Watching our wedding film made us cry all over again.”
We often hear from couples who regret not booking a videographer, and we don’t want you to feel the same. A wedding video is more than an expense—it’s a way to preserve the most meaningful day of your life.
Don’t Let This Be Your Regret
We learned the hard way how much we missed by not having a wedding video. That’s why we’re so passionate about creating films that let you experience your day again and again.
If you’re still wondering whether a wedding video is worth it, let’s talk. We’d love to show you how we can capture your story and create a film you’ll treasure forever. Contact us today to get started.
